Haven’t seen The Nevers yet, but my wife and kids and I just finished binging Buffy. First time for the kids, and I hadn’t seen it in over a decade.
Was initially tentative given the Whedon shit, but figured what the hell, given that it had a very strong (largely female) cast who’ve spoken out on how proud they are or their work on the show. And ditto for writers and producers.
Anyway, it has aged extremely well. There are a handful of episodes in the first 2 seasons that are 100% disposable... but it was way ahead of its time, and while there were plenty of problematic issues, they all made for great debate and discussion. I still love the series.