Mental health check-in

feeling pretty good. so thankful to still have a job. thankful to have food for my family. thankful to have a yard for them to run around.

started to teach my oldest basketball yesterday. that was really fun.

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Fantastic to see a father being a great 'dad' with their kids & family!! Family; that is what it really is ALL about. Bravo!
 
...but this really doesn't bode well if he's just sitting about all day getting legless. :(

LOL I will be looking for a chance to use the phrase “getting legless.”

Yeah this crap has been making me drink a bit more than usual too. Extreme work stress and a pandemic are a bad combination. I made a conscious effort to cut back over the weekend, so I think I’m mostly over it. :azn:
 
There are my wife, our 28yo daughter and I rambling around in our palatial 1200 sqft garden townhouse (i.e. one level). We're doing fine, but since my daughter lives here and her boyfriend is in Canuckistan for the duration she's not really too happy. He's getting his year internship (graduated last year in chiropractic medicine) and she's been doing her occupational therapy via Zoom, but they have now had two trips they had planned canceled (Vancouver in April and Manhattan in May). Otherwise, I've been keeping busy. Our fiscal year ended on 3/31, so I put in a lot of 12-16 hour days the last couple of weeks. This week, I've got about six hours of 'meetings' scheduled to work on resource planning for this fiscal year. I took Friday "off", so hopefully I'll be refreshed to get back to it.

I had planned on visiting Madison to see my sister and - especially my parents who are both in their 90s and under hospice care, but it's highly likely that one or both of them will be dead by the time I am allowed to actually go into their facility (a lovely place one block off Capitol Square), so even if I could, getting on a plane this month to WI wouldn't make any sense. So, I'm basically calling about every other day and it sounds like my mom is circling the drain (she's on morphine and heavy muscle relaxants for cancer that's metastasized to her lower spine.) My dad is basically cancer covered with skin at this point, but he's a tough old bastard (went through Ranger basic in late 1944) and survived stage IV gastric/esophogeal cancer at 70 as well as a partial (3/4) pericardiectomy necessitated by radiation damage from the cancer treatment a few years later (he is - or at least was the oldest person to have ever survived that procedure) so who knows?

Anyway - I hope all of you who have major concerns over jobs and income are able to weather this. At least that isn't a concern for me at this point (although, like most of us, I lost about 15% of my nest egg over the past month...)

Mojo about your parents. While my dad isn't in bad shape physically he does have dementia and I don't know if he'll remember me by the time I can get back to see him again. And at his age he's frail and who knows as well.

I haven't even looked at my nest egg over the past month and a half. I'd rather not know. I'm good for the short term and hopefully by the time I have to look it will be better than it is. It helps being optimistic having gone through the '87 crash not to mention the ones this century
 
I've had a long, weird life with a fair bit of fucked up events.

Ergo, this has all been OK for me. The one time it wasn't, I simply got an overwhelming wave of sadness for all of the people who are suffering, who have suffered, who have died. I feel terribly for them.

Me: never better.
 
Biggest issue at our house is that the kids a are getting cabin fever. They're ages 4 and 1.5 and they both have an insatiable appetite for anything new. Which is in short supply when you're stuck at home.
I'm working from home and down to 4 days/ week, which is actually kinda nice for a month or 2. Have a good backlog of projects so I'm not too worried about work at the moment. We have an au pair who watches the kids during the day, and that's been a lifesaver.... I'm able to focus on work instead of trying to juggle work and childcare.

Biggest concern is 1daughter. She was in the hospital back in January with pneumonia from the common cold. 1wife is a nurse and she has to go to work, so we're all worried about her bringing something home.

I'm exercising a lot which is a big help. Reduced hours and no commute have freed up some time, so I'm trying to take advantage. I stocked up on any essentials over the last 2 weeks, so it's no problem to hunker down for a while.

Having said all that, I'm ready for it to be over. Not feeling too anxious, depressed, etc. but getting bored and the kids are getting nuttier every day.
 
I'm good so far. Spend two weeks being sick as a dog. Then 3 weeks doing stuff at home. Had a bit of a depressive episode right before this shit kicked off, feel sort of fine now. Did a naughty and met a friend today, we had a beer on the hill in between our places. Was pretty hilarious, it was sunny when we decided to go, it ended up being two guys on top of a rocky hill in the middle of the city standing 2 meters apart in a hailstorm :embarrassed:

As awkward as it is meeting a close friend like that and being constantly aware of keeping distance etc, it was very good to talk to a human that's not part of my household in person for a bit.
 
I'm good so far. Spend two weeks being sick as a dog. Then 3 weeks doing stuff at home. Had a bit of a depressive episode right before this shit kicked off, feel sort of fine now. Did a naughty and met a friend today, we had a beer on the hill in between our places. Was pretty hilarious, it was sunny when we decided to go, it ended up being two guys on top of a rocky hill in the middle of the city standing 2 meters apart in a hailstorm :embarrassed:

As awkward as it is meeting a close friend like that and being constantly aware of keeping distance etc, it was very good to talk to a human that's not part of my household in person for a bit.

We've gotten to be like housedogs - eagerly running from window to window and practically barking when we see people, dogs, cats, squirrels, etc.
 
This has actually been pretty good for me. My daily routine hasn't changed much, since I already worked from home. The only differences are, my kids are home and my wife is home more (she also works from home 2 or 3 days a week already). I don't have to pick up my kids from school, so that's a bonus. The only thing that suck is not being able to run to the store or pickup dinner as much. It's also nice that when I do have to go out, the traffic is gone, which is huge for me traffic is not good for me.
 
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