(part 2)
Make a plan
Should you become a luither? To be or not to be... that really
is the question. I've been thinking about this with the soon arrival of my first child, if he was to ask me the same thing or want to take over the family business.
First off make a plan. Set a goal. Research that goal. Ask people who work in that field. Read EVERYTHING you can. Obsess over it. Drive your friends to the point of desertion, make your parents wish they had ear plugs and stop just short of making your significant other want to bean you over the head. This applies to whatever you might devote your life to.
Second, go to school. College, trade school, community college ect. You will invariably learn important life and social skills there that will always help your future endeavors. If you have a goal, you'll find classes that will directly apply to what you want (and make the ones that don't bearable).
Third, as suggested find locals who work in the field you want to be (again, this applies to most things). Every town has some one who is a luither, tech or goon of some sort. Doesn't mean they are the best or even good but you will learn things. Be proactive, go out and find these people. In the future, no one wants to hire the recluse. I want proactive people working for me, so does the rest of the world.
Learn everything you can. Be open minded. Maybe just being a local tech is all you want and let the business worries fall to someone else. Maybe you want to go work for PRS, Taylor, Fender ect. Learn and experience and maybe open up your own shop one day.
Or maybe you just want to dive in with both feet and let the chips fall where they lay.
My future luither/builder specific advice
Network. Be crushingly nice. Be social. Dont steal. Be original. Work hard. Take constructive criticism.
I LOVE what I do. I also hate it from time to time (anyone of us who has has this moment... mine usually comes from my 4th or 5th fret job for the day). I wouldn't trade it for anything ('cept flying F16's!).
The thing I love most about building guitars is the boutique community. I have done lots of things over the years and NO ONE shares like this community. If you're original, not stealing someone elses designs and your a nice chap to boot, you're in. We ALL talk to each other. There are only (imo) a couple of ego's in this entire community that I can't stand. I've hung out with Roman Rist, Ken Parker, Pete Swanson, Linda Manzer, John Monteleone, Nik Huber, Ron Thorn, Juha Rukongas, Saul Koll, Greg Platzer... have talked to Bob Taylor, met big artists and small, right down to guys who I consider on my level (size wise), Dan Nefeasy (DGN), Mike Potvin, Sam Evans, Michael Spalt, Frank Demiel, Paul Rhoney ect ect. This doesn't even touch the amp guys Adam Grimm, Andy Fuchs or people like Rebecca Dirks and the rest of the PG staff ect ect. There are literally hundreds of names I don't have room to mention.
The one thing you'll see over and over and over again is this is the nicest group of people on earth. We all have the its us vs the big guys mentality so we all help each other out. I share dealer info, building tips, frustrations ect. We all do with each other. If you want to do this for a living, this is the way you should act and treat each other. Listen to those who have been doing it longer than you when they offer insight or advice.
Be ready to work, A LOT. I work 7 days a week, 6 in the shop 10+ hours a day with every spare minute at home used to answer emails, phone calls, drum up business ect. It will be your life.
Parting
OK, now you've seen (I hope) what it's like to be on the inside. Decide for yourself, make that plan and get to work!
BTW this is how long I've been working in the family business.
I take a lot of pride in being where I'm at for 30 years old and keeping alive skills and traditions that tend to be lost more and more with each generation. I also have a father to which I will always be eternally grateful to for not just building the shop I use today but being the role model that proved to me a smart head and hard work can get you far in life.