As someone out of the game...

Might be looking for a sugar daddy, which isn't necessarily a bad thing as long as everybody is up front about expectations and all that.


Dinner for two at a nice restaurant: $65
After dinner drinks: $40
Your ex wife knowing you hooked up with a chick half her age: priceless
 
Screw the whole age thing... It's a bit lame and I can't imagine you and a 23 year old having the same interests and issues in life so probably in the long run it'll be awful, but nothing wrong with a bit of fun.

The fact that she has a boyfriend however is an absolute no go. No need to get involved in other people's problems.
 
Pickings are slim in the dating scene. Men need to be managed, or they go feral like boars. To find a clean, healthy male who hasn't devoted his life to video games, fantasy sports, or the like is rare in any age group.
 
I can't hurt to hang out...maybe she's cool as hell, maybe not. But I'll bet if you don't at least try, you'll kick yourself later down the road....
Just make sure you have no expectations, just see what the night brings. If you feel uncomfortable, that's fine. You're not obligated in any way.
Some women like older guys, it's as simple as that.
 
Ok...here's the best advice you're gonna get...
Call her...have a little small talk etc. then tell her "I was surprised you gave me your number and wanted to hang out, because I thought you had told me you had a boyfriend? You caught me off guard!"
She's either gonna tell you that they broke up, which MAY mean she's interested in dating you...
Or she's gonna say "yeah, I still have a boyfriend but that doesn't mean we can't hang out." She may even say "that doesn't mean we can't be friends".
Either way what she really means is "I want to fuck you"... The choice is yours my friend. If it's the latter, be prepared to keep your heart out of it...she just wants a fuck-friend. If she is single she may still want just a FWB or maybe more.
 
yeah, yeah, yeah...firm breasts and buttocks are all well and good. but after the first few minutes and you're done, then what? at 23, she's used to guys who are good to go again in 5 minutes time.

unless it's wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am, clean it off on the drapes and out the door, you're gonna have to converse at some point, no?

hell, at 23 i'm willing to wager she doesn't even know tongs are an option for cooking!
 
^^Didn't you once walk out of a washroom with your dick hanging out and wonder why the girl didn't want a second date?
Or is that someone else I'm thinking of??
 
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