As someone out of the game...

tompetty said:
^^Didn't you once walk out of a washroom with your dick hanging out and wonder why the girl didn't want a second date?
Or is that someone else I'm thinking of??
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If I had a dollar for every time that happened to me, I'd have one dollar and I'd use it to make a sign that sad "no smurcos allowed because that was weird"
 
tompetty said:
I get that and I'm not saying I wouldn't take a sniff either. But as I sit in this dog house trying to act all moral and shit,( I have kids older), Id try and leave the pup alone..
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Campground rule, TP.

Plenty of people have been damaged by partners their own age.
 
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Flamencology said:
Campground rule, TP.

Plenty of people have been damaged by partners their own age.
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True..Fuck that shit..I have no skin in the game..I have a gal that comes over who is only 6 years younger than me. I'm off work again this week, she's not, and I have a belly full of oysters and rum. I'm gonna give that Tragically Hip show another listen..
 
gtrjunior said:
I can't hurt to hang out...maybe she's cool as hell, maybe not. But I'll bet if you don't at least try, you'll kick yourself later down the road....
Just make sure you have no expectations, just see what the night brings. If you feel uncomfortable, that's fine. You're not obligated in any way.
Some women like older guys, it's as simple as that.
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gtrjunior said:
Ok...here's the best advice you're gonna get...
Call her...have a little small talk etc. then tell her "I was surprised you gave me your number and wanted to hang out, because I thought you had told me you had a boyfriend? You caught me off guard!"
She's either gonna tell you that they broke up, which MAY mean she's interested in dating you...
Or she's gonna say "yeah, I still have a boyfriend but that doesn't mean we can't hang out." She may even say "that doesn't mean we can't be friends".
Either way what she really means is "I want to fuck you"... The choice is yours my friend. If it's the latter, be prepared to keep your heart out of it...she just wants a fuck-friend. If she is single she may still want just a FWB or maybe more.
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The two best pieces of advice in the whole thread. Give her a call. Worst case, you meet for some drinks or coffee, have a few laughs, and that's the end of it. Best case, well...hitting the sack with a nice 23-yr old isn't the worst thing that could happen to you. Either way, don't put too much stock in her becoming the next Mrs. 12Pack.
 
shoeless said:
The two best pieces of advice in the whole thread. Give her a call. Worst case, you meet for some drinks or coffee, have a few laughs, and that's the end of it. Best case, well...hitting the sack with a nice 23-yr old isn't the worst thing that could happen to you. Either way, don't put too much stock in her becoming the next Mrs. 12Pack.
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Thank you, sir.....both are my advice!!!!
 
I've been monogamously married for 36 years, ten months and 26 days, so this thread is now my vicarious, voyeuristic expedition. So: "Lay on, Macduff. And damned be him that first cries, “Hold, enough!” "
 
Update.

Haven't called and wont.

Yes, she is pretty decent looking. Yes, it would be awesome to potentially have a FWB or even a one nighter. Did it make me feel good that she insisted I have her number? Yes - It did. And that doesn't happen to much in my life and took me off guard when it happened. Why would a 23 year old give me her number? Thing is I married my HS sweetheart. Never dated. 22 of marriage years later ex wife tore my heart out. I didn't know how to date as I never did before. Did some internet dating for a bit and it was crazy. I have some funny stories about that perhaps for another thread.

Then. I met this girl.... no woman. Slightly older than me. Treats me better than anyone else with boobs has before. She is awesome and I've been with her for some time now.

Back to the divorce, the drinking, the death if my Dad all at once, one thing I've learned and lived my life by ever since is to make my decisions based on my priorities and whats important to me. My kids, my health, my job and the friendship and love that this new older woman has given me in my recent life.

So - Yes - I got a number without asking from a 23 year old. I'm not going hit that up as a 23 year old isn't really something I need or want in my life nor do I want to hurt the woman in my life now that has been sincerely fantastic to me. She wouldn't deserve that.

That's pretty much the end of this 23 year old. Not even started. And it won't. I just was asking the forums (perhaps bragging a bit:embarrassed:) that it happened and does that mean that said 23 year old is looking for Netflix and Chill type thing? I have no idea.

Sorry to disappoint you fellow MWGForum peeps. :(
 
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