jelloman
Couch'd Tater...
Hi gang...
Let me start this by just saying thank you to all of you for your thoughts, prayers, and well wishes after mom died...it was greatly appreciated...
I want to say a special thank you to @Help!I'maRock! ... thanks for the texts Howie...they meant a lot to me...
We had a reception/viewing/wake Tuesday at the funeral home...they estimated about 250 to 300 people came through the two 2 hour sessions...there were a lot of sad people that day...We cut it kinda close because we didn't anticipate the complications involved in getting her out of NYC...
The funeral was yesterday...I gave the eulogy for the 5 of us, and my Niece Wendy, mom's oldest grandchild, spoke for the 9 grandchildren (not counting spouses) and 13 great-grandchildren...we put her next to her parents, under a fir tree...
My sister and I will be opening the will and starting that unpleasantness on Tuesday...we don't know for sure, she was on medicare with supplemental AARP insurance, but we fear an avalanche of medical bills...we're planning on selling her Subaru Forester (hasn't even had it's first service yet) to help offset expenses...but we are both very proud of the estate she is leaving...she did very well for herself, and she took good care of all of us...but there's a mountain of her stuff to deal with...
Everybody keeps telling me not to make any big decisions for awhile...but there are some things I have already faced up to...
I'm going to have to sell the house...there's no way I can afford to keep it alone, and it's just plain and simply too big for one person...
I'm going to get out of my car...the 300.00 payments and 1k per year insurance it's costing me will be more useful other places...plus I still have my truck, which is paid for and will be quite useful over the next several months...
It's not fair to the cats to keep them here now that she's gone...her Butch is an 18 pound spoiled baby who needs almost constant attention, which he will not be getting from me as I work a 5 and 6 day week and have a ton of other things to do...I haven't decided where they will end up yet, I have some time...
I haven't wanted to think about it, but I am going to proceed with my surgery next month...it's not going to be as easy without her help, but my sisters have vowed to help out with it...
I'm getting kind of tired of people asking me how I'm doing...I'm doing...that's all I got...
Thanks...
Let me start this by just saying thank you to all of you for your thoughts, prayers, and well wishes after mom died...it was greatly appreciated...
I want to say a special thank you to @Help!I'maRock! ... thanks for the texts Howie...they meant a lot to me...
We had a reception/viewing/wake Tuesday at the funeral home...they estimated about 250 to 300 people came through the two 2 hour sessions...there were a lot of sad people that day...We cut it kinda close because we didn't anticipate the complications involved in getting her out of NYC...
The funeral was yesterday...I gave the eulogy for the 5 of us, and my Niece Wendy, mom's oldest grandchild, spoke for the 9 grandchildren (not counting spouses) and 13 great-grandchildren...we put her next to her parents, under a fir tree...
My sister and I will be opening the will and starting that unpleasantness on Tuesday...we don't know for sure, she was on medicare with supplemental AARP insurance, but we fear an avalanche of medical bills...we're planning on selling her Subaru Forester (hasn't even had it's first service yet) to help offset expenses...but we are both very proud of the estate she is leaving...she did very well for herself, and she took good care of all of us...but there's a mountain of her stuff to deal with...
Everybody keeps telling me not to make any big decisions for awhile...but there are some things I have already faced up to...
I'm going to have to sell the house...there's no way I can afford to keep it alone, and it's just plain and simply too big for one person...
I'm going to get out of my car...the 300.00 payments and 1k per year insurance it's costing me will be more useful other places...plus I still have my truck, which is paid for and will be quite useful over the next several months...
It's not fair to the cats to keep them here now that she's gone...her Butch is an 18 pound spoiled baby who needs almost constant attention, which he will not be getting from me as I work a 5 and 6 day week and have a ton of other things to do...I haven't decided where they will end up yet, I have some time...
I haven't wanted to think about it, but I am going to proceed with my surgery next month...it's not going to be as easy without her help, but my sisters have vowed to help out with it...
I'm getting kind of tired of people asking me how I'm doing...I'm doing...that's all I got...
Thanks...