i settle for one who can find the pocket consistently






Not being a repurposed guitarist.
It's all in the mustache...

Something to keep in mind is that people WATCH singers and lead guitarists. They FEEL bass. The appreciation for the rhythm section is a far more subconscious activity. Look at people when they're dancing, though...they're not moving in time to your shredding. It's those big fat notes and drum beats that make hips shake.![]()

I probably use this phrase too often, but...
Big ears.
Someone with a good sense of Rhythm AND melody. Too many bassists don't have one or the other. Bass is a fusion of the melody of guitar with the rhythm of drums. If you lack either melody or rhythm, you're gonna suck at it.
Also, a small ego is absolutely requisite. Because you are gonna get mixed way, way down.
Harmony is pretty important for a bassist, too. So, basically, you need to be a complete musician.
D'oh! I knew I forgot something. You are totally right. and like i said, an ego that isn't easily bruised, because no one will ever, ever appreciate you fully.