Weekend Wrapup

Mark Wein

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A little early this week because I'm afraid I'll get busy and miss it later....

Played the Beverly Hills High School class of 1980 ( and a few other years) 40th class reunion in Marina Del Rey with Panjive. Other than that its been some fairly time and other work.

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Friday - out of town appointment for Mrs DCF. Went to IKEA for more picture ledges to make pedal shelves, ate dollar hot dogs. Took the milk route home and enjoyed the day. My Spark 2 was at out door step when we got home.

Saturday - I had to work at our company golf event. We sponsor the Canadian PGA tour and the championship was this weekend. I worked it on Thursday as well. Mrs DCF worked around the house all day. So, we ordered pizza and wings for dinner.

Sunday - day tripped to Port Dover just to get out. Nice country roads drive to a lakeside town.
And this happened: https://markweinguitarlessons.com/forums/threads/so-i’m-trying-on-a-pair-of-10-dollar-jeans.111065/
 
Pt 2 In the last month I’ve painted my deck, foundation, and windows. These are all projects I started the week of July 27, 2020, and a week later lost my wife. I’m feeling much better now and have such wonderful memories. Going to start paint the two of the bedrooms next. Also played guitar and walked the dogs. This is my favorite time of the year where the grass slows growth and is just beautiful.
 

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Pt 2 In the last month I’ve painted my deck, foundation, and windows. These are all projects I started the week of July 27, 2020, and a week later lost my wife. I’m feeling much better now and have such wonderful memories. Going to start paint the two of the bedrooms next. Also played guitar and walked the dogs. This is my favorite time of the year where the grass slows growth and is just beautiful.
Wishing you "mojo" isn't enough to convey my most heartfelt sympathies. I can't imagine your pain. I've lost many family members, but losing a wife has to be so much different. It sounds like you are keeping yourself active and the momentum going. Know that you have plenty of friends here to lean on or talk with.
 
Had an "unexpected" gig this weekend.... Drummer sent a text on Thursday about load in time for Saturday.

"Saturday? Where?"
"The Benefit gig."
:messedup:
Nothing on the calendar... and I don't remember us agreeing to a date on a football weekend.

So I threw some random shit in the car, watched ND play a shitty first half of football (was thankfully spared from watching the worse second half) and then drove up for setup and soundcheck. While plugging in, there are speakers nearby talking to the rest of the people in the VFW hall about addiction and times when they considered un-aliving themselves. I shot a look at the drummer like... :eek: "Did they hire the right band?"

It was a "Suicide and Addiction Awareness benefit" so starting with a somber room and knowing that we weren't even getting paid... I turned my vocal game up a notch and tried to win over the room and hopefully get some decent tips.

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Throughout the years we've played together, we often will do off-the-cuff interpretations of requests.... or sometimes I'll throw a song at them that we've NEVER played or practiced.

Spencer (Drums)... said something to Bob like "Really Bob? Mmm.... Bob?"
I said "Did you say MmmBop?"
And broke into the song. We did the first verse, two choruses, and then broke down laughing.

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We pulled a few other random surprises and instant requests out.... Elvis, Petty, Prince, and even a few bars of my Reggae Stairway to Heaven. :lmbo:

We ended the night with $300 in the tip jar and someone came up at the end and booked us for another private (paid) event, so can't hate on the day. :baimun:
 
Saturday - went into work for a couple hours to catch up on things...ran errands and stuff and went home...

...by the time I got home I was not feeling well at all...

Sunday - after a very rough night bunkered in...had to back out of a birthday party invite...

All in all a total suckfest of a weekend...
 
Wishing you "mojo" isn't enough to convey my most heartfelt sympathies. I can't imagine your pain. I've lost many family members, but losing a wife has to be so much different. It sounds like you are keeping yourself active and the momentum going. Know that you have plenty of friends here to lean on or talk with.
I’m in a very good place. Story, when we got out of the military and moved back my late wife’s grandfather (she never knew her dad) had and old, old farm house/cottage. He let us live there rent free while we adjusted, got jobs, kids in school and saved for a down payment on a house etc. Now it needed repairs things I could do I did. Painting it, sealing the foundation another. Tearing down and removing an old farm equipment building another. He had retired and lived next door and so always was around. Loved our kids to death. Old school hard working farm guy. Nail tough. While we were not buddies we developed a good relationship that I was very fond of. Any time I paint outside now I remember him vividly. Just the way he walked up, greeted us, talked about how he wanted things painted and placed. 31 years later I still paint and do things the way he wanted and it’s a warm and fuzzy thing.

Same thing with my parents. All gone from the planet but still very much with me every minute. I am so very blessed and dripping with mojo.
 
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