I am "on vacation" next week.
Now, my wife's idea of MY vacation was to take my son and daughter and drive 500 miles one way to stops in Delaware, MD and PA and visit relatives in a whirlwind tour and then drive 500 miles back. Meanwhile, I will be sleeping on couches, floors, in people's houses that don't have room for all of us.
I had offered to pay for my other 2 daughters' tickets up to Boston and then go get them, but for whatever reason, they're not into that. Can't be bothered, whatever.
So, I pretty much said "Fuck that."
So now I am in the doghouse, everyone is pissed at me, and I don't give a shit.
They (my wife, daughter 22, and son 19) are slated to leave at 3pm today and come back the day before Christmas Eve.
I just bought a new house and want to use MY vacation painting and redoing stuff around the house, not cram packing a miserable car ride (about 20 hours round trip) into a 4 day whirlwind tour to go sleep on floors and couches and see my in-laws, pay to put the dog somewhere, etc...etc..etc...
Guess I'm the asshole.